Marriage may be the world’s oldest institution but it seems to be falling apart much faster nowadays than it is put together. One of the causes for divorces and marriage break ups is a lack of intimacy between the husband and wife. Perhaps the children are a real handful and the job is demanding in this ailing economy. But there is always time to work on your marriage with some simple solutions.
Variety for surprises
Just as one does not like to be eating the same foods all the time, a marriage need some surprises to keep it interesting and pleasurable to the couple. Even with intimacy in the marriage, the couple may want to check out other ways to excite one another or have a different approach sometimes to feel the excitement and passion.
A simple method is to put on some seductive lingerie to portray a more sexy side of you for your spouse. It would certainly revitalize his energy albeit a long day at work. You can change to some different lingerie once in a while, keeping the occasion special and building up the expectation.
Privacy in your bedroom
There must be real privacy that is respected by all in the couple’s bedroom which is their private lair. A couple should feel comfortable with each other in their own bedroom to enjoy each other. The wife can put on lingerie that takes on different roles for some make believe or fantasy to bring some fun into the marriage relationship. It doesn’t mean that married couples must be stiff and proper all the time. They are humans who need fun and excitement too even if they are married. That would be a plus because they can freely explore things together without guilt or danger and have fun together, sharing some delightful moments which can spice up their marriage.
A couple can exercise some fantasies together in the privacy of their bedroom or whenever they are together. They can communicate easily with one another when they are open about their true feelings and thoughts, wants and needs, likes and dislikes. Hence, they can try fantasy lingerie.
A marriage relationship can be taken up another notch with activities which are common and pleasurable to both parties. Husband and wife can discuss their preferences and each can work on satisfying one another should they differ in opinions. Every one has their own fantasies and preferences. Your spouse would be the best accomplice in your ‘tryst’.
You can indulge in various fantasies through different fantasy lingerie. The more popular ones are the French maid where the concept is the maid is at your service to your every bidding, making you feel grand and in full control, giving you total satisfaction as the man of the house or a schoolgirl lingerie to bring back the good old young days, to make one feel youthful again. The guys can also don the superman outfit who makes a grand entrance and sweeps the lady off her feet or a policeman outfit which depicts a hero in the eyes of his lady. These are good foreplay to spice up the intimacy in any marriage
by Sanjay Soni