Pregnancy Tips – Do not Listen To Other People’s Horror Stories!


If I could write this article for people talking to pregnant women, all it would need to say is: Do not tell them your horror stories! But it is probably going to be read by pregnant women and so you have to take matters in your own hands. Here is how.

Pregnancy Tips

Horror stories

First of all, yes, there are traumatic birth experiences. The question is: Do you need to know about them especially when you’re pregnant and your hormones are already all over the place?

My answer is NO.

If you are a mother and have some horror stories up your sleeve, keep them to yourself or tell them when someone asks. As you may remember, being pregnant makes you feel hyper-anxious about everything and hopefully you would agree that it’s not necessary to add even more worries than those that come naturally.

How to avoid hearing them

I have had people wanting to tell me something starting by saying: ‘Oh my god, this is what happened to so-and-so …’ I stop them right there and then, asking them: ‘Do I really need to know What you’re going to tell me?Or ‘Would you want my unborn children (I was pregnant with twins) to really hear this?’

Usually, this stopped them in their tracks. Some people were a bit baffled, others realized what they were doing without thinking it through and apologized. With some friends, I then asked: ‘If there is anything positive or something you want me to remember, tell me that part’. This way I heard tips like ‘rest well’ or ‘make sure you prepare your hospital bag soon’ etc.

If you already heard them

There are as many not so nice birth experiences as there are amazing ones. It all depends which ones you pay attention to. Your consciousness is like a searchlight: What is yours focused on?

If you have heard horror stories and are worried, talk to your midwife or obstetrician and check for the facts. Read up on the internet or in the pregnancy books you already have at home. Talk to your girlfriends and ask them for their positive experiences or the tips they would want you to remember. In order to make use of their experiences, you do not need to hear how they forgot something or failed but what they have learned from it.

The fact is that birth is an intense experience but it all depends on how you want to prepare yourself mentally for it.

Do you visualize all that could go wrong or everything that could go right?

Why not make your visualization of your perfect birth about what you do want, instead of what you do not want. If you do this regularly, it will prepare your body and your nervous system to stay calm and be able to manage whatever comes your way.

Also Read – Get Pregnant Fast – 3 Fertility Natural Secrets From Near-East


by Nathalie Himmelrich

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